I guess some people are just never happy! She should be thrilled to know that you will be on the early longer with less medical problems. Hang in there. Maybe some counseling for both of you would be helpful???
I am so glad to hear about the smell!! I am now 3 weeks post op and the smeill is just now demenishing - somewhat!
I am an extremely clean person and the smell is sometimes overwhelming! I even asked my boyfriend to smell me to see if he could smell it!