I am going through the exact same thing. I only told a few people. My children, partner, brother and 3 friends. I broke and told my mom because it was such a big decision I was making and I knew she wouldn't be supportive but I told her I didn't have to tell you and I didn't want any negativity. Also I feel the same as you. Is this the right decision and I think about that I am 40 now and if I don't get this 255 pds off my 5'1 body I will soon run into health issues. I am determined to lose weight and I agree with the jump start. If you are mentally ready the rest should be easy I guess.