I ,point blank, told anyone with a negative opinion that I didn't have room in my life for that. If they can't be supportive and positive, not to talk to me about it. I almost lost a few friends... others quickly realized our friendship is more important and have been super supportive!
My surgery is a go for June 19th. I'm sooo ready but my husband continues to try to talk me out of it. I know he worries but I have a better chance at life having it done! Thankfully, I have supportive friends and family.