Lizestymom03

I am so worried about this. I read somewhere it is like a 90% divorce rate! We are rocky as it is cause he is not an emotional person and very hard to talk to. Like others stated, I want this to be a family thing but he doesn't seem interested and he is having it done. I am just all over the place?

Thanks to all replied. We see how it goes.

I guess I feel he isn't doing enough research and getting used to protein powders and things like that. I suggested he should join this site and/ or we get some counseling about this surgery but he doesn't see the need. He feels I don't care anyway so why bother. He seems to think this is solely about him and won't affect us but I think otherwise. To me, it should be a family endeavour to make it work. I am also worried after 14 yrs of marriage and 3 kids, he will have a whole new look on life and us not being a part of it?.

My husband is set to have it in a few months and I feel we are not on the same page. Any spouses out their, especially women, been through it already and can help me out? He just seems so lax about it and nothing has changed!