Walter.Sobchak

If you aren't ready, then don't rush into it. Try some more controlled eating and exercise. If you can do it on your own, then great. I personally know I cannot do it without the tool of WLS. This is a major decision, so take your time and don't rush.

Yikes, that looks totally infected. Hope they get you fixed up real quick.

What is your BMI? What comorbidites do you have? What is your quality of life at your current weight? My family was opposed to it for me as well, but I am tired of being miserable. Also, I have some serious comorbidites. You have to do what is best for you.

Awesome. Glad to hear you are doing well. Thanks for the update.

Schweet, same to you. Keep us posted.

That is what I am thinking as well.

Cool, thanks for responding. I believe that will be the case with me, but I will call them to double check.

Hello Peeps, I am wondering if the first visit to the weight loss surgeon counts towards the six month waiting period. I saw him in January. So I am wondering is it 6 visits after that and then can submit to insurance for approval? Or is it 5 visits after that and then can submit for approval? Essentially what I am asking is, how many visits total before can submit to insurance? Initial consult plus six more? Or initial consult plus 5 more? Thank you

Pretty awesome man. Keep up the good work.

Wow, flipping amazing. Keep up the good work.

Questions about binge eating. Food addiction. History of addiction or alcoholism. Questions about my emotions. It was pretty painless. Took like 10-15 minutes.

Congratulations on the weight loss, pretty awesome. Sorry about the hair loss issue, hope it gets better.

I feel the same way. It took me 17 years to get this big (I was in good shape at 21, I am 38 now) So, if it takes 18 months or 24 months to get to an ideal weight I am OK with that. I know it is going to take time. I am just looking forward to having the sleeve as a tool to help me.

I am not shaming you for slipping, but what an awful choice. I hate peeps. Worst easter candy ever. Chocolate covered marshmallow eggs, that's where it's at. [emoji12][emoji12][emoji12][emoji12]

My surgeon said to plan on about 18 months. I personally do not want gastric bypass. Dumping syndrome sounds horrible to me. My BMI is currently 56

Awesome. You look great. Keep it up.

Cool. I used to work for a huge company and I had awesome benefits. But I was miserable, so I took a voluntary layoff.

I agree with this 100% I have not had my surgery yet, but I know I have issues. I wouldn't be 425 pounds, if I were a normal eater. I know I am a food addict, I have accepted it. My psychologist and I are going to start working on it at my next appointment.

Holy Cats Insurance companies are so crooked.

Ah, that makes more sense. I couldn't believe an out of pocket max of $200 I was astounded. $2000.00 sounds about right. That is close to my OOP max.

I think they meant 50 pounds.

Was this the first time you were seeing him? That seems odd. Personally, I wouldn't want bypass due to the rerouting and the potential for dumping syndrome. Can you find a different surgeon? It is your body and your choice. If you want to get sleeved, then get sleeved.

Where do you work? Those sound like pretty good plans.

I say both as well. I appreciate all the before and after pics people post, but the ones that have the biggest impact are the ones with the least amount of clothes. You can really see the progress, the more skin that is showing. I swear I am not a creep [emoji12]

I understand your fears, as this is major surgery. My wife and I are in the process of getting gastric sleeve together, within a few months of each other. I am scared for her and scared for me. However, we both understand the risks involved and the rewards of a healthier better life. We are getting this done to improve our lives and to be healthy for our kids. I would suggest counseling and therapy to work on your fears and anxiety. You are correct about the resentments he will harbor towards you if you discourage him from getting the surgery. I wanted to get sleeved 4 years ago and my wife was opposed to it. I had resentments towards her for that, but now here we are trying to get it together. You said you are afraid you won't like the new him, that very well could happen. You could also find out you don't like him without surgery, relationships and especially marriage take a lot of work. At the end of the day it is about him and his health and feeling better about himself. I believe you can get on board with that [emoji4]