Mom24Kidz

I have a very sweet ex grandmother also and I say just go with the hernia repair story. She won't know the difference and you won't have to do any further explaining. You won't have to tell her that it's not her business and hurt her feelings that way. As for your child just remind her that "Mommy doesn't want her talking about what Mommy had done because she doesn't want people to worry about it." That should work. ) Good Luck! :thumbdown:

I have a question for you TA. What are your stress levels before/during these weak and fever episodes? My friend had Gastric Bypass a few years ago and she's had problems ever since...anyway they finally told her that it was caused by HIGH STRESS. They told her that when she gets depressed, stressed or worried her Immune System basically shuts down. She finally left her husband and life is good and she is slowly getting better. Good luck in your search. Hopefully you find that "wonderful" doctor to help you with what you need. I pray that you find out what is going on so that you can relax and enjoy life again.

Hello All I am so excited to be here. I am waiting for my seminar (March 11, 2008) and then I have to wait for my insurance preauthorization. My goodness that's a LOT of waiting. I've been lurking here a while and decided what the heck, I'm just going to join this wonderful group. Have a wonderful day!