TimJM

I was sleeved on April 25th. So far including pre op I have lost 37lbs. My sex drive has increased but my wife's has not. I try not to take it personally but it is frustrating. Has this happened to anyone else? Sent from my SM-N920P using the BariatricPal App

Oh yes she is very supportive. She had the gastric bypass in 01. She is blaming it on low energy. She is going to see her gastro doc about her Crohn's in a couple of weeks. Last year she went to her Gynecologist about low libido. (She used to have a very high libido) She thought it might be hormones. Blood work came back all normal. Her doc asked us when was the last time we took a shower together? His point that it is not her hormones but in her mind. He told her sometimes we lose focus of what is important and our marriage is the most and it takes effort and sex is important in a marriage. When she is in the mood she is in the mood, but it just has come longer and longer between. I know ahe said when I was heavier it was difficult because we were limited as oppose to when before I gained the weight 5 years ago. Now I have lost weight and ready to be like we were before. Hopefully it will get there. Sent from my SM-N920P using the BariatricPal App

I do that already. ???? Monday house was all cleaned and dinner ready when she got home. Yesterday all laundry (including hers) all done including sheets. I work from home mostly so I have the flexibility to do this. Sent from my SM-N920P using the BariatricPal App I talked well texted her about us having a date soon. She is in corporate sales and has business lunches with clients often. Today she was having lunch at a steakhouse with her boss after an appointment. I told her he is a lucky man and I envy him because he more "dates" with her than I do. We have older sons out of the house and a 5 year old. Finding a babysitter that doesn't cost a fortune is rare nowadays. Sent from my SM-N920P using the BariatricPal App

I do that already. ???? Monday house was all cleaned and dinner ready when she got home. Yesterday all laundry (including hers) all done including sheets. I work from home mostly so I have the flexibility to do this. Sent from my SM-N920P using the BariatricPal App

Miss Mac I already do that. Yesterday when she came home The house was all clean and dinner ready for her and the 2 sons that live with us (I'm still on week 3 poast op liquids). Today all laundry is done including sheets. I work from home most days so I already do all of that, including yard work. Sent from my SM-N920P using the BariatricPal App

I walked a lot after surgery. It helped. Sent from my iPad using the BariatricPal App

I lost fast the first week then last week was a stall. Today startting week 3 lost again. Sent from my SM-N920P using the BariatricPal App

I was sleeved on 4/25. Sent from my SM-N920P using the BariatricPal App Send me a like too please. Sent from my SM-N920P using the BariatricPal App