Only you can make this decision. If you decide its for you then make it your goal to follow all post op directions so you don't end up like your coworker. There are a lot of wonderful people here who can help you with questions and concerns.
I am waiting for approval from my insurance so maybe we will sleeved around the same time. (I'm Blue Cross FEP)
You are all amazing! Congratulations on your hard work and dedication to your health! I feel more confident about my decision because of you amazing folks