Yadie2006

feb 23

❤️ im ready! im doing this!

thank you for all your replys you guys! im feeling more confident and i know im making the right decision ????

im scared of the surgery but i read all these wonderful stories and it motivates me. i just wished i had my dad support. i am a daddys girl lol! i wish he can be there the day of the surgery im getting so emotional about it.Is he not planning to be there? Have you asked him? I am 51 years old and still a Daddy's girl. He was all for the surgery because he has always been the biggest critic about my weight, the one who understands the least (due to his own personal experience), and the one whose opinion can hurt the most for me. I asked my mom to go with me and she stayed the whole time. What really surprised me was that my dad left work and came to stay the whole time I was in surgery. I hadn't asked him to come and really didn't expect it, but it meant a lot. That is a long way of saying if it is important to you, then please let your dad know. Sometimes we make assumptions without actually being honest about what we need. im 32 and i will always be a daddys girl lol. i talked to my mom and she said that my dad is just very worried that something will happen to me. thats why he refuses to even talk about the surgery. it would make me very happy to see my dad there.

thank you very much ❤️ i asked him if he was going to be there and he said he was going to Mexico for a couple of weeks. but i was having a conversation with my sister and she mentioned that he cancel the trip to be there on my surgery day. but i dont understand why he wont tell me. i really need him there, i just need his blessing thats all ????

we always have arguments regarding the surgery my dad feels very offended when i tell him that i have made up my mind and no body will change it. i dont know why he feels that way. as for my brother he hurts me so much with his comments he knows i have tried many diets for years and i have failed every time. it hurts me that he calls me all these fat names and i have to hide my sadness i know it would not be easy but ill make it. for my children. it broke my heart that we went to disneyland and i couldnt fit in the rides i wanted to cry so bad but i didnt want my children to feel bad so i forced myself into the rides even though it was extremely unconfortable and painful but we mothers do what ever it takes for our children. thank u i know i can do this for me, for my children!

im scared of the surgery but i read all these wonderful stories and it motivates me. i just wished i had my dad support. i am a daddys girl lol! i wish he can be there the day of the surgery im getting so emotional about it.

thank u for your words. they mean alot to me. i hope my dad and brother realize that im just trying to do something for myself and to be happy so i can make my children happy as well. ❤️

im in san jose california. im having my surgery at good samaritan hospital with dr marc zare.

thank you i will love to connect!

feb 23,2016 ????????????????

my surgery is coming up 02/23/16 im really scared but its something i really want to do. my dad and brother dont support me at all. they say im taking the easy way out that im lazy that i should just exercise. im 317 pounds 5'9. its so depressing. im the one with the white tshirt. i just want to be healthy and happy again.

02/23/2016 ❤️

approved for 02/23/2016!! yay

just received my approval! only took 4 days!!! surgery scheduled 02/23/16!! so exited! good luck to all!

My initial appointment was 11/12/2015 and i am done with the nutricionist appointment and the psychologist appointment waiting approval. ????