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I'm still in process of preparing to get a surgery date. My last step is an upper scope on Jan 20. My husband and I meant with the surgeon. The surgeon recommended the RNY. My husband wants me to do the sleeve. I want the RNY. I'm 315 and will be 45 March 5 right now I have a whole person to lose. My husband lost his first wife to cancer and has a fear of losing me our me having long term complications. I told the surgeon this, the surgeon said flash out bottom line "it doesn't matter what he wants, it's what you want and what will work best for you." I still want the RNY, but feel like I'm choosen the surgeon over my husband. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks