Hang in there, and was told you've done your research. Just breathe. Mine is in just over 1 weeks away, and I am keeping myself busy and occupied. By the way I am in the new haven ...
Call the insurance company, I just went through it this week and was grandfathered in due to original contact by my Dr's office to the insurance company to get the requirements, the new plan started 1/13/15 we contacted them on 1/3/15, ask to speak with the nurse manager... I have blue cross too.