Sleeving it

So I kept my surgery a secret. I wasn't ashamed but I just didn't want to deal with the people that didn't understand. So many people think it's the easy way out. Well I had a close friend confront me about my weight loss. She said she "figured" it out. I told her the truth but now she isn't talking to me and said I was a liar...along with some other hurtful things. It's been a month and she has all but written me off. I'm having a hard time shaking it off. It really upsets me. Anyone else have friends turn on you?

I just don't understand it. I would not react or act like this, but I am a different person and everyone acts differently. It just really really sucks. I hate feeling like I'm a monster. It's horrible.

She said she was hurt that I didn't tell her, she thought we were better friends than that. You're right, I think I didn't tell her because I knew she wasn't a true friend. I just need to let it go, it's just hard. We work together and I have to see her everyday.

OMG this made me LOL!!! Thanks for that I needed it!

Thanks, it just really gets under my skin. I think I already knew in my heart she wasn't a friend. This just confirmed it, but it still hurts.

I've lost 21 LBS! Is that good? I dunno

Sitting in waiting room at my 3 week post op! I'll let yall know how it goes!

Hey all! I just joined. I'm 4 days post. Feeling sore and having acid reflux issues just got medicine this afternoon. How long did it take all of you to not feel that sensation when you swallow?

I've lost 13 LBS!!!! I was very surprised! I'm 8 days post. I'm happy with that!

I'm going to my primary tomorrow so I'll find out how much I've lost. I'm very curious. Tomorrow will be 8 days post. I only know my weight from my pre op appt. I'm not weighing myself at home. I'll let Ya know!!! Also, had sugar free oatmeal tonight. It was SO good and went down pretty easy!!!!

Not too bad! Yeah I had one nurse who normally didn't do bariatric and she was clueless but other than that it was good!

I'm sorry your nauseous! Yes I was at Tampa General for the whole time. I'm doing pretty good! Keep me posted!!

So I clicked on the page, now how do I add them as a friend?

Gonzolvo

How do you add friends on this app?

That sounds delicious! I'll have to try that! Thx!!!

I was the same. I was super eager to get all my stuff done. The thing that held me up was stupid insurance. I live in Florida

Yep, two week liquid! Yesterday was hard, I was hungry. I gotta keep my mind busy. Weekends will be hard for me that's when I rewarded myself with food.

My energy comes and goes. Yesterday (5 days post) I had lots of energy, but today not so much.

I am doing all those things! It might just be my head. I gotta keep busy!

Day6 post and today I'm hungry!!! How do you fight this?!?

Phew! What a relief! Thanks!!!

Hey all! I had my surgery Nov. 3rd. Doing pretty good. Today I woke up with what feels like a pulled muscle on my right side under my boob. Anyone else have this?

He is my dr! Had my surgery on Monday. How you doing?