45peaches

I had RYN gastric bypass approximately 10 years ago.  I have joined this site to possibly share my experiences and to possibly help others who have either had the surgery  or are considering it.
 
I have lost 125 pounds, lost the 100 in the first year.  The physical improvements healthwise were immediate.  I no longer needed blood pressure medications, my mental health vastly improved.  However, it also changed my personality somewhat.  I was in a very unhappy marriage for 27 years and finally had sufficient self-esteem to finally divorce. 
 
I found dating somewhat difficult due to some negative changes to my body.  Due to the massive weight loss, I now having hanging skin, an apron or  flap of skin  hanging from my stomach, hanging skin on my upper arms and legs.  I did meet the perfect man who accepted me for who I  am and how I look.   
 
My body does make me self-conscious especially wearing a bathing suit but otherwise but regular clothing does hide most of my body issues. 
 
Would I do it again?  Definitely yes.  I just wish someone had been a little more up front about the potential side effects to the body.  I have chosen not to have corrective surgery but that is mainly due to other health issues and the cost.