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Hi All, I had thyroid surgery many yrs. ago because of a goiter, I've taken thyroid meds. ever since. Has anyone had the RNY surgery after thyroid surgery?

Hi everyone ,I'm a newbe and wondering how long you have to be on the pre-op diet? Mary

Amy,I'm so sorry that you had such a bad experience. I would do evrything possible to have the thing removed if I were you. Consult a good Dr. that help you ,maybe even take payments . The rest of you need to chill, everyone makes mistakes, and we all need to try to understand that , have empathy for each other with kind words and our support.

Birthsjourney and Lillyannah , welcome to our group, can I ask you to tell us where you are located? Birthsjourney you've made our day with your wonderful enthusiasm. Lillyannah you are going to enjoy all the support you'll receive from this group.

Welcome Countrygirl to the golden agers.

Welcome Shirlann and thanks for your input, I'm thrilled everything worked out for you in a positive way, helps us all with the confidence to go forward.

Thanks everyone,I did type up a letter to my PCP ,telling him my concerns ,asking him to reconsider, I sent the form he needed to sign with the letter I wrote, now all I can do is wait. Thanks again for all the support, you all are great!

My bariatric Dr. wanted a form stating problems I have ( like hypertension) signed by my primary care Dr. My primary care Dr. Is reluctant to sign that form because of personal issues. Did anyone else run into a problem like this? I'm afraid my surgeon won't do my surgery. Does anyone have a suggest on how to handle this situation?

Sally, Best Wishes ,Good Luck, Prayers. I wish I was in your shoes and had my surgery coming up. Please keep me posted on your progress. Mary

I had to wear them after my knees were replaced but I have no idea about bariatric surgery, mammecan said she didn't have to wear them so let's ask others that have had their surgery. AFTER. SURGERY, DO YOU HAVE TO WEAR SUPPORT HOSE ? Take care, Mary

That all makes sense ,I think coffee will be one thing I miss. They did tell us about soda in the seminar. How are you feeling since your sleeve? Would you do it again? To care, Mary

Welcome IMK, it's common to be nervous, it would be odd if you weren't. From what I learned from my 3 hr. orientation the surgery is fairly safe. They put us through all the bells and whistles to prepare us the best they can to make us ready. We are all in the same boat and I'm not willing to let anyone sink. This is a wonderful support group and everyone is ready to help. The eating problem will gradually get better ,try small soft food a few time a day until you feel better. Keep the faith. Stay safe, be happy, live long.....Mary

Mammecan, P.S. WELCOME!

Mammecan, Thanks for your input,I have a question ,do you know why we have to give up caffeine? I congratulate you on your first step to success. In my mind you are a hero. Keep up your positive attitude. Stay safe, be happy,live long.......Mary

Hi All, I'm a sweet-eater also, bad bad bad

Has anyone went to liquid vitamins and meds? Are you going to crush your meds ? I'd be interested on what everyone decided about this.

Hi Shersun, it sure is a small world. I want my husband to move south but he had to buy a retirement home in Winter,Wi. About a 30 min. drive southeast of Hayward,Wi. But I made him agree that when he retires we spend winters traveling the warmer states. You do sound very active , how do you like curves? I have consider joining but don't want to go with the young ,skinny set that look at you like your from another planet. We have an elliptical machine at home that I try using every day but I only made it to 2 min.LOL I won't give up. It sounds like you are all set for your surgery and that you have enough confidence to share with all of us. I considered the sleeve but my Dr. Said I'd be better off with the bypass. He thought the faster weight loss would benefit me more, everyone has a different view point. Keep in touch stay safe, be happy, live long.....Mary

Hi Pat, I have fibro also, and arthritis ,mostly in neck,shoulder and back. I 'm with you in feeling younger than my age. 60 is the new 40 and I believe that's true . Have you had any of your testing yet? I have some scheduled for next week, checkup and authorization from my family Dr.and a psych exam . I'm looking forward to getting all this done. Today is Sunday so I suppose everyone will be watching football. What part of the country is everyone from, I live in Wi. It would be interesting to know where everyone is from and how much support they have in their area. Their is a good support here, meetings, Facebook and group support but not many people our age group. Keep in touch all. Stay safe, be happy, live long....Mary

Wow you've had a bad experience! I'm sorry to hear that but it looks like things are looking up, hurray ! Good luck on your surgery ,please keep me posted on how you are doing. I won't have my surgery until early summer and I hope you will give me some pointers . What steps did you have to take before your surgery this time? Keep yourself positive and you will be fine ,in 5 days you will start your new life, I'll be pulling for you. Take care! Stay safe, have fun, live long....Mary

Yes I'd like to know also, which store?

Hi All, Happy Saturday, I'm wondering where you get all your energy Sally? I feel as tired in the a.m. as I did when I went to bed. I'm hoping with surgery comes more energy. Are any of you feeling apprehensive? Sometimes the surgery is all I can think about. Did anyone buy their protein drinks yet? If so have you sampled any. Does anyone know why you can't have coffee after? Is anyone doing this on their own without telling everyone in your family? I have the support of my husband and one daughter but haven't told the rest of the family because they wouldn't understand. I don't know how I'm going to address their questions later but I feel this is a very personal choice and I shouldn't have to explain myself to them. Thanks for listening. Stay safe, have fun, live long.......Mary

Welcome P Quinn, Come join the rocking chair set LOL. All of us have the same motives in joining together for support. Do you have a time for your surgery? How are you doing? I'm also learning a lot just by reading all the posts. It sure helps to get advice by others that have been through it. I know Chapstick, bathrobe ,socks and someone said flavoring for the water in the hospital and a big thing is where and what kind of flavored protein to buy. It's a great website and now we have a nice group started. hurray! Keep in touch, stay safe, be happy, live long. Mary

Hi Tiffany, Lifescript.com has some great lite recipes and it also helps to keep a food journal. I will be doing surgery in late May .I don't have to lose weight either ,but I am doing a journal for my Doc., it keeps me from going overboard with food. My biggest problem is sweets, I'm hoping the surgery will help with this. I hope this helps you! Stay safe, be happy, live long. Mary

Hi Tiffany ,I I'll have surgery in late May or early June. My doc didn't require me to lose weight but told me to keep a food journal, it really helps to see what you eat daily. As far as recipes, Lifescript.com has some nice casserole,and dessert recipes. Hope this helps. Stay safe, be happy ,live long. Mary

Welcome Shersun, It's great to hear from another golden oldie LOL, I also just started my journey . I have ins. and Medicare part A,I didn't realize that Medicare would pay for bariatric surgery. I'll have to check to see if part A will cover some of the hospital charges. I do have a deductible and some co- pay so that might help,thanks for the info. My dr. requires a psychological exam and I need to see a heart doc. because I was diagnosed with 1 percent heart failure . When those are complete they said my surgery would be end of May or beginning of June. Do you worry about having the surgery at our age? The only concern I have is my doc said if something does go wrong it takes a lot to recover at my age, but In order to be healthy and have a productive life I'm willing to go for it. I hope you will keep in touch with us. Stay safe,have fun, live long, Mary