I know what you talking about! But iam a way worrying about her health than any things else. She's like 249lbs right now, maybe she's healthy but not healthy looking at all. And iam worry about after we have a baby. That will make her take some more weight. You said to love her body while she doesn't even like it. I always wonder why? If you don't like yourself why would you expect someone to like it. And why don't she wanna look great, not for me but for herself. I could find someone good looking or what ever but choose to be with her because she's different, very lovely. I love her