I'm going through the same thing yoyo diets but my husband and I started out doing it together and last month he lost his job and benefits now I'm done and have been on my shakes for 2 days now and he makes comments like I'm going leave him after surgery I know it's his own insecurities but words hurt ???? I keep telling myself I'm worth it and I'm don't this for me I am so much more than my weight and I deserve to do this for me ! I can't help how others feel or what's gong on with them but for the first time in my life I'm being selfish enough to say I'm worth it and I'm living my life for me first ! We are all here to support each other through this journey keep your head up it gets better promise ! UPDATE : I took control tonight I went away for a few hours no phone no kids no nothing and when I left things changed my husband realized I'm serious about this and I especially want his support but we had a long talk and he cooked dinner tonight and even made it low carb ???????? keep moving forward