I have chosen to tell my mother and my husband that's it! @ work I'm telling them I'm having a hiatal hernia surgery. Lately they have seen I'm going to doctor a lot and also I received a call where they told me i have sleep apnea and of course one of my coworkers was lisening and asked me why I was going to docs so much and what was wrong I just said it was general check ups and that my sleep apnea study was recommended by my PCP, as u can see they question me a lot and I'm trying to keep it as simple as possible. Also my family are very judgmental and feel that if I say something they are going to start talking BS... Sometimes people are very jealous of good things coming for someone, not everyone is like that but mostly every1 is, I've learned that the hard way and things come out the way we want them when no one knows @ least until after its done