My husband and I have been together since my senior year in high school. I was thin then & through most of the beginning of our relationship. But as time goes by, age, comfort, bad habits, & two kids later I am now here two days before my surgery. My husband doesn't think I need it & loves me at any size. But he is supportive & understanding that this isn't for looks or attention. It's for my health & enjoying my life with my children & him. I don't see our relationship faltering because of this but know that it will be better because I will be a better me.