Things that irriate me well.....I have one friend who wanted to get the lap band but her insurance would not cover it, so she is going to have the gastric bypass. I see her almost daily, and she has never said I look like I lost weight. Well there was one time she did say I do notice alittle bit in your face. (I have lost 101 lbs.) At christmas time she kept offering me homemade candies, pies....I declined all of them . She also makes comments like well at least I will be able to lose weight faster than you and she says I'll probably lose all mine before you get done losing yours. I say to her.... keep taking your vitiams, and get to the bathroom soon..... I try not to talk about my surgery or weight loss with her anymore I don't need someone who is not supportive in my life.