Thank you everyone. Today is a new day. I did not experience the same pain I did the night before last. Thank God.
The doc stated what you all said: to take it easy. I was told no more than 30 lbs in 3 weeks. I have been repeating that "rule" to my family, & thanks to you all~ the weight limit has been lowered.
What a wake up call. If I can be an example, take head...& take it easy!
It's so hard when you are used to living your life a certain way. I'm a "do-er", care taker, I have a precious child with special-needs.
Well, now mom has her own special needs. This is the first time I've done something for me. I was so scared that I screwed it all up--by doing too much.
Luckily, I get another swing at this! I am not going to mess it up. Funny, yesterday I did n-o-t-h-i-n-g at all & my daughter was a bit upset w/ me. Finally, she talked to my mom & next thing you know she brought me a drink & took my temp.
Today, I'm aiming to get out of the house to go to lunch-but that's it!
I doubt I'll even tote my purse around... I'm such a cheap date anyway with my broth/soup!
Thanks everyone for your advice. I underestimate how much was done during this major surgery. Ignorance is bliss until you cry out in pain!
Cheers to healing!