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I have developed a minor/major addiction to ice cream, so I have been trying to figure out a way to have it and it be healthy for me. Even those light/diet icecreams out there have ingredients I can't pronounce and just can't be good for me. So here goes the recipe for Peach Ice cream 3/4 c frozen peached, partially defrosted 3/4c skim milk 1 tbsp. instant, sugar free fat free vanilla pudding mix 1 tbsp. fat free evaporated skim milk 1 tbsp egg beaters 4 packets Splenda (or to taste) 1 cap full of vanilla extract Put all ingredients in a blender and puree then pour into a sandwich ziploc bag. Double bag it with another ziploc bag. In a gallon size bag add rock salt and ice. Place the ice cream mix inside the gallon size bag and close. shake, squeeze etc. for about 10 min. then place ice cream bag in freezer for another 10 minutes or so... serve immediately. This makes one large serving and is approximately 150 calories and you get a milk and a fruit serving plus it is low in sugar and fat free. I love it and it is much healthier than any product in the freezer aisle.

So preband/pre-weightloss I didn't receive much/if any male attention. Now that I have lost nearly 100lbs I have STILL NOT received much male attention. The only attention(flirting, compliments, etc.) I have gotten has been for males that are much older and not my type (one was 15 years older, divorced, had three kids, and lived with his mother..not my ideal guy). I just don't really understand it. Preband, I chalked it up to being overweight. Now I don't have that excuse. Is it me? Am I not attractive enough? I know I still have some confidence issues, but I am so much more confident now than I was before. Am I not confident enough? Too confident? Intimidating? Any tips/constructive comments would be great.

I get comments like "The boys must be knocking down your door." THEY ARE NOT!!!! Nor were they before so I am perplexed????

It seems I am still just as "invisible" (at least to the opposite sex) as I was before.

Has anyone tried BioOil for stretchmarks and scars. It is a year later and my scars from LB surgery are still a brownish red color and I would really like them to fade out and become less noticeable.

THE BAND ITSELF will NOT reduce the cholestrol (as I am sure you realize). If you are banded and still eat the same high cholestrol foods but in smaller portions it may come down a bit, but not too much. For the band to really work, you need to be ready to make a total lifestyle change which includes eating healthy (not dieting) and exercising. The combo of these will help tremendously. Pre band (pre exercise, pre healthy lifestyle) I had a mildly high cholestrol level. Now that I have adopted a healthy life style and lost nearly 100lbs I have normal cholesterol, BP, Glucose, Triglycerides, etc....its all normal. I would encourage your hubby to go for the band if he is ready for a lifestyle change for the long haul and as others have said if its genetic all of this may not help at all but it will make him healthier and it will help to keep him around much, much longer.

I got mine at www.laurenshope.com. It is sterling silver and beaded. I never take it off. It is way too big now and almost fits my ankle. Eventually I will have to have it sized down or get a new one. People have actually noticed it before when I was sick and questioned me to make sure I was okay. It puts my mind at ease...in case of emergency. Plus it is a nice fashion accessory and goes with everything!

I don't have too much to add. I had also researched a bunch before my surgery. You may want to ask what type/brand of band your surgeon uses and their opinions/experience. There are several different types and from what I understand, some are better for different body types than others. Libra is absolutely right about the exercise. It is a MUST. I workout minimum 45 minutes everyday (6-7 days a week). I know that I wouldn't have lost this much or look as good as I do without it. My mom is a good example of not exercising. She has lost approximately 40lbs since Oct 07 which is great, but she hasn't changed her diet and she hasn't exercised (she has a bum knee so it is hard and she works 20+hours a day---not kidding). She is happy with the weightloss, but knows it could have been more and she could be in smaller sizes if she had exercised. While I can tell she has lost, I can't tell THAT MUCH. I still love her to death and wish her well, but I wish she would work less and exercise a little. She doesn't regret her band at all though because she says that she has LOST 40lbs that she wouldn't have and might have actually gained some over the past 9 months.

When I had restriction (after my 4th fill) I didn't lose anything. Fills don't seem to work for me very well. I ended up having a spasm and my band closed up on me. I had to have a complete unfill. Since then I have had some put back in, but I don't have any restriction now at all. I find that eating 5-6 small (well balanced) meals everyday and working out is the best way for me to lose.

Well, I have made it to size 10s and I definitely consider myself NORMAL, but I would still like to be a 6/8!)~ Size 2 is not in the cards for me, nor do I want to be, I like my curves! GO WHITNEY!!!

I stopped taking my calcium supplement because I was getting WAY (almost 3 times Daily recommendation) too much from the combo of my diet and supplement. That can really back you up. I also eat 1-2 prunes a day (love them).

So I LOVE THIS SITE!!!! I have been tracking my food and exercise for the past two weeks and I love being able to see what I am putting in my body. I still haven't lost any, but I am beginning to realize I messed with my metabolism by overexercising and undereating. I am giving my body a little rest and eating a little more and exercising a little less. I am hoping after a while my metabolism will fire up again and I will lose this last bit of weight. I want to be as close to goal as possible before I get my PS (possibly as early as Dec or next may after graduation).

I haven't told any of my family (mom's side). My mom and dad know of course, but other than them and a couple of close friends, I don't tell anyone; however I have told some complete strangers and that felt great! My family sees me losing this weight and has never once questioned me. I tell them good nutrition and exercise...which is true and they are fine with that explanation. I am so close to goal now that I am starting to plan my plastic surgery and I have told my fam about that. They are being really supportive..maybe they would have been supportive about the surgery but at this point I just don't see any reason to tell them. Its a personal decision and in my view it just wasn't any of their business. Good luck with your surgery and your decision to tell or not to tell.

I take the viactiv berry flavor glides everyday and I love them. They are not too big to swallow (a little large, but not bad) and they slide right down with a pleasing berry taste. I totally recommend them.

Is there any point to doing crunches and ab work pre tummy tuck?

Lizziet: I started at 262; size 24/26. Currently, I look fine in clothing with the exception of my arms, but naked I am not happy. I hope you don't have problems.

Lizziet88: I am not offended at all. Ask away! I am 5'4" ish and currently weigh 165 ish. You may be one of the lucky ones that doesn't need PS, but I have always been overweight ( in fact, now, I am smaller than I have ever been...entering unchartered territory). If you have only been overweight for a little while you may be just fine. I wouldn't have had the money for PS either, but I have recently come into some money from an inheritance so I am paying off loans and having the surgery soon. Good Luck!

I am 24 and I have lost 97 lbs and I have saggy skin. I am planning to have PS (TT, Arms, and Breasts) done sometime next year. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but it is almost certain that you will have some saggy skin. It may not be too bad and you may be able to deal with it. i won't be happy till I get mine taken care of. Good Luck!

Well, I weighed this morning 1 week since starting to log on DP and I haven't lost...still maintaining. However, I am a few days from my TOM, so I am attributing the "no loss" to TOM. I feel thinner and my clothing seems to fit better and my energy is definitely better, so i am going to give it a few more weeks before I readjust (again) what I am doing. I am afraid my body has just decided that this weight is where I am supposed to be and I can't accept that. I'll update later after the TOM and see if it makes a difference. In the past I would generally drop consistently for 2 weeks and gain or stay the same for the other 2 weeks. Damn hormones!

Thanks for everyones input. I will let you know later this week how the first week went on the scale. I am really hoping for a loss. I really like the Daily Plate and like being able to track my nutrition.

Has anyone used the calorie calculations from My Daily Plate and had success with weight loss? I have started tracking my food and exercise on this site and I really like it. I haven't weighed yet because I am trying to give it a week to see if it will really work. Anyone else use My Daily Plate?

I am not your size or shape,but.... 5'3.5" started at 262 wearing size 24/26. my stretchmarks aren't that bad, but I do have a lot of loose skin in my arms and stomach(s). I have the upper and lower pooch. Mine is not as bad as some I have seen, but it is enough to really bother me. I have lost nearly 100 lbs and I am about 15 lbs from goal, so it is safe to say that it is not bouncing back. I am planning to have PS sometime early next year. Good Luck!

Heating Pad is a must!! I also loved having SONIC Ice pellets. They were great to munch on especially in the beginning when I wasn't feeling like drinking, plus you can use it to make slushies with the crystal light. Gas X strips are great too. Comfy pjs and robe!

Thanks Tracey!

Thanks everyone for your thoughts, advice, and kind words. I am really going to take them to heart. I did some research and it is like a light bulb has gone on in my head. I AM exercising TOO much and not eating enough to sustain my body because of the strain I am putting on it when I work out 3 hours a day. DUHHH!!! No wonder I am sluggish, craving sweets, and starving all the time. I am going to starting eating a few more calories (good quality foods) and exercising less. I have enrolled on My Daily Plate and I am tracking my food and exercise and maintaing a net 1200+ calories. I am going to see if this helps me start losing again, at the very least it will give my body and mind a bit of a break. Thanks again and I will keep you all updated.