I am suppose to have surgery the 6th of September, and the only people I have told or know are my husband, a friend who had lapband surgery, my BFF, and another friend. I will not tell my mother, she is the most negative person in the world. She always has to be better then me,compares my sister and me and tells me I'm not as good as my sister at anything I have tried or have done.
I'm fearful that she will just be so negative when I'm banded ..ie. your not loseing enough, or you still look fat, or why arnt you working harder..that until I'm well on my way I not say a thing, nor will I tell my sister..she will just tell my mother.
I'm relieved they live in Georgia, and I'm in Illinois,I don't see them but a few times a year.. so I guess it will just be a surprise