big2slim84

Ive come so far down to my last few dr. appointments and im getting scared and having doubts my husband still doesnt and never has supported my decision and now im thinking maybe i am taking the easy way out im 27 years youbg with diabetes and high blood pressure weighing in at 280 pounds i have been fat my whole life and just need a jumpstart to a new healthier me but with no support i start to doubt myself

I am new to this site but so far like what i see.I am 278 pounds right now.I am a diabetic and have high blood pressure. I am 27 years old married and have two children. My husband says in taking the easy way out in my decision to be sleeved and has made it perfectly clear that he does not support me in any shape or fashion not only will this help my self esteem but i also have many health problems.I really need a support system right now any suggestions?

thanks for all the comments no matter how he feels im set gore surgery in September in scared but so excited I've been overweight.my whole life can't imagine living life without my weight being an issue.