I have to admit that I don't understand the people who say they feel getting a band means they are a failure. You can't get the band unless you have tried at a million diets. It not your fault that they havent worked... With our metabolism, with PCOS, you have to eat abnormally little food. Once you get the band, you see how little you are eating and realize you couldn't have lost all the weight without it.
This is the best "forever" decision I could have ever made. I know I won't gain it back, either. It's just about impossible.
And you don't have to announce it to anyone - it's not like they have to know.
I happen to tell anyone and everyone about it to increase awareness.