It is....challenging. I've always been a bit of a maverick all my life and finding it hard to follow the "rules". They are there for a reason, though. I've learned through trial and error what I can do - and it's only been two weeks. Seems like just yesterday i was eating what I wanted without a second thought. There were many times where, after a meal, I'd say "did I really just eat all of that?!"...those days are gone now, but the urge to turn to food out of habit, boredom (nostalgia?) is still strong. My family is aware I did the procedure, as is my gf, but no one else. I am a little concerned about not eating in front of her, too. She is already self conscious about her weight and she fears that when I lose mine, I'll lose interest in her. So much going on at once. It's definitely been more challenging than I had imagined it would be. Good thing is my scars are heLing up nicely, and no complications at all. Also down 16 lbs since the day of surgery.