WhalePinner

Hey there - not sure if this is the right place, but trying to find out more about blue cross insurance and it's in the title of this thread.... So basically I've just been made redundant at work - have to now find my own insurance and worried about everything and getting banded My DH says I need life insurance as well - looked at an article on http://www.lifeinsurancequotes.org about the Blue Cross plans, but not sure if they're giving me biased information. Anyone have advice?! Thanks a million

I don't think men will be turned off... they're usually just so excited to get a naked woman that nothing much else matters! If you're worried you should look to meet some other "like-sized" individuals. There's a good site on http://www.onlinedating.org - I think it's toward the bottom but it has something to do with bigger people looking to meet others like them. Hope that helps, and just remember it's all in your head - convince yourself you have the confidence to be your wonderful self!!

I agree with what most people are posting here - DON'T wear it all the time. It's just not good for you. I can understand wearing it when you go out, but then try to be au-natural whenever you're home or having a more relaxed low key day or outting.

Way to go to all the ladies out there who picked 16 or 18 in the polls - A woman can be sexy at any size. I believe that it all just has to do with convincing yourself... to have confidence! That's the trick. That's all there is to it - seriously! And so many real men out there who actually know and appreciate that

Aw girl - never feel like you are the only one! Haha just one of the only ones brave enough to admit it! But I've heard about this before - lots of women have "problems" like this - don't worry about it at all!

Yeah I don't suggest giving up drinking entirely. Maybe cut back to just one glass a wine a week though? Then it will make it more special and you can really enjoy it knowing that it's perfectly fine for you to drink. And the girls night out cosmo's... sounds like fun! Just don't over do it, but that socializing and laughter probably burns a few calories and the endorphins you would get from going out and having fun with friends are well worth it in my opinion

Hey Toni - Just wanted to say great job on this - that's pretty major - If you feel like you've been shut down so badly - and still didn't need to turn to food to comfort yourself - way to go girl! You don't need a man when you're that strong and amazing