Why is this part awkward? I get more attention. But now men want to date me instead of just stare at me. I don’t know how I TRULY feel about this framily. Help.

On 9/28/2023 at 4:06 PM, MsTeeTee said:

Why is this part awkward? I get more attention. But now men want to date me instead of just stare at me. I don’t know how I TRULY feel about this framily. Help.

I'm just guessing, but, could it be because you're the same person just viewed differently now. Its a shame it takes just losing weight for men to finally see the real you, to see the beauty you've always been?! Unfortunately, being over weight comes with feeling insecure (most not all of us feel this way) and with insecurity comes shyness and awkwardness. Give yourself time to focus on you, the dating will fall into place when YOU are ready!

On 10/16/2023 at 7:50 PM, BlondePatriotinCDA said:

"...Its a shame it takes just losing weight for men to finally see the real you..."

Trust me; it's not exclusive to men, women do it as well.

On 10/21/2023 at 2:59 PM, ShooterInTheSix said:

Trust me; it's not exclusive to men, women do it as well.

True, but I definitely see more women with chunky men than the other way around.

I've had this happen all the time now and I havent even lost all the weight i need to. I have men at work who were saying after surgery they want to date me. I told them no. lol But there are people who I never even talked to here saying hello to me now. its sad but I expected it.