Well, I was with my ex at the time of the surgery. I am not gonna lie. She could not turn me on after my surgery. hate to say it, but I threw that relationship away for a new one. It was to the point that with my ex, it felt like work and was not enjoyable for me anymore. My sex drive was dead. So,yes I did leave that relationship. And now, with my new relationship, holy smoke balls Batman!! I feel like a teenager again. She gets to the point where she can not keep up with me. Lol.

But back to the point with the ex. There was more there that made me want to call it quits with the ex. But that is nether here nor there. I didn’t break up with her cause the sex. Yeah that played a role, but it was worse then that. Sorry for the rambling.

oooookay.

It's better to get out of a relationship that you both know won't work than to stay living miserable and waste each other's time. Glad you are happy, and hopefully your ex too.