Hey still waiting for a date for surgery , it have been a long process over a year and a 1/2 but am just feeling down about my weight and apart from the numerous medical problems that go with it , it really gets to me the way people judge FAT people I never really brought in to this belief before but it's true not everyone but the majority of 'normal' people out there literally hate us fat people and look down on us. Self confidence is at all time low atm ... Any positive stories or comments ???...???....

Hi tia92

I too have been on this journey since march 2014 and l do understand how disheartening it feels to be waiting for a surgery date.

Please dont feed into the negativity of how people judge us larger beautiful people and dont buy into it because they have their own insecurities only ours can be seen. Just focus on you and your journey and you will gain confidence by focusing day to day and seeing the small changes you are making

Good luck