Just wondering by having rny if your relationship with your spouse has changed? Ive been heavy for 30 of my 40 years so this will be life changing for me in all ways. My husband and I just got married a few months ago, and for the last 3 years its been a food and drinking fest. Hes very supportive, and positive about my surgery. He also says hes going to change for the better too, by running again, and trying to lose weight with me. The thing is ive heard this so many times before with us. We workout lose a little bit, and then give up and go bavk to our old ways. I am so ready for this surgery, ready to make life altering changes, I just hope my new marriage will survive.

I haven't had the RNY yet, 4 days away. I have had the lap band and when I lost, about 30 lbs everything was fine. I think as long as your husband is on board with you losing and doesn't try to sabotage you it will all work out. My husband is diabetic so really our food choices will have to be the same, low carb, sugar free ect. It will be easy for me. Maybe when he sees you doing so well, it will motivate him to do better! Good luck!