17 days til surgery

its getting down to the wire here for my surgery and im starting to get very nervous. i would love to just get some feedback from ppl that have had the surgery. im on the border with my BMI im at 35. I cannot loose any weight before my surg, and im just curious about my recovery, when i can start working out....its going to be done the thursday before memorial day so i wont have to go back to work until that tuesday, im hoping thats enough time