from texas and on the loose

don't really know where to post this...

I've lost 110 pounds!!!!! OMG!

Ok, here's the challenge -lost 110 pounds, skin on arms, tummy and legs a nightmare, divorced for 15 years, over 50....and ready to hit the town

I'm planning a trip to San Franacisco as a gift to myself and don't know where to stay and what to do...I chose san fran because it is Not the beach(swimsuits and shorts) and because it sounds like great fun.

I plan to do all the touristsy things by day...but the evening hours have me stoooped.

I am way into wonderland and ready to meet someone, well ok, ready to look at someone and wink? no, just maybe a conversation...

So, What area of San Francisco and what hotels will be good for me?

My hotel is reserved at the Westin St francis (because I thought it would be the safest area to stay alone), but can still change it.

I want to be able to walk a few blocks, or take public transportation if needed to have some wine, maybe music, and single 55-65 year old men...

So, what lounges, bars, hotel lounges, coffee shops are the best for me?

sorry this is so long! thanks for all your ideas!!!

Also, any ideas of where to eat that is famous or off beat that serves food that I can eat...soups, cheese and crackers?

Can I walk at night alone?