WE had a discussion about this at my lapband support group. Many people have issues after weight loss surgery. Marriage is not easy, I think when we are heavier, we just cave in to get along. Once we loose weight, and gain more confidence back, many of us want to explore areas that we didn't do in the past. I am trying to keep this PG rated, but I think you know what I mean. So divorce rate does go way up after surgery. Lots of us feel ignored in marriage, and now want to and deserve the extra attention.