guss walker

Thank you for all your help WOW-I'm the stupidest guy in the world. My wife is a great woman! I know this is with me. I really need to get my head on straight. She takes such great care of me. I don't know whats wrong, I just know I'm broken. I decided not to leave. I think im seeking different bcus I know i will never find anyone as caring as her. I want excitement- I've been married for 11 years, im kind of bored. I think this is what its about.

Ok here's my public confession; I was banded 2 years ago, lost 120 lbs of fat and added about 20lbs of muscle. Ive since grown far from my wife, I feel like I have nothing in common with her, the love has died. could this have been a result of my weight loss? Apparently I'm kinda hot? I get a lot of attention from the opposite sex.There have been several occasions were I could have done something stupid, but I choose the high rode. I don't dislike her but I don't feel the same love as I did when I was heavy. She has been consistent, I changed. I was speaking with people I work with, they all agreed that I have changed. My self-esteem level has sky rocketed, Its made me a little more assertive and cocky. Has anyone gone through this? Im at the point were counseling is not working and I feel no hope. Se really is a great woman.