i know your pain, i feel that i am being harrassed. my situation is a total 360 from yours. I was being told that i was dressing inapropriately for work now that i am overweight. i work for a healthcare comp. as soon as one of the MD's found out that i had been approved for lap band she literally pulled me off to side and told me she had denied my surgery because she thought that i was not appropriate. Suddendly, the same MD that has been complaining about my work attire and my weight (by the way she has told me that i am fat and need to loose the weight to my face) now tells me that i dont need the surgery and that i always dress appropriately and don't have any weight issues. i have thought about filing a complaint. I still have not decided.