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Bendy H

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  1. Well Barbara: I hear ya! I'm down 70 pounds and feel the same way. I can do so much more now than I used to. I am always on the move and feel great. I just cringe that I wasted so many years being over weight when I could have done this sooner and been sooooo much happier. I am very grateful to have made this decision and it has totally changed my life forever. I couldn't be happier and I am about 40 pounds from my goal. Bendy
  2. I tried to stay away from shopping as long as possible - I just worked my way down my wardrobe as long as I could as I had many sizes in there. But eventually you will have to break down and by some new clothes because they will be way to big. Plus - I some how had it in my mind that when I went for a fill that I would magically would be at my sweet spot that day. It doesn't work that way - at least not for me. It can take up to a week or two after a fill to really adjust to a fill. Like when I went in for my 6th fill I was great all month - then all of a sudden I got really tight and had to go and get some out because it was too tight. Now I feel much better. Still losing and feel great. I think stress, or not feeling well or the weather - all these things can make the band tighter. Sometimes even if you are sick and throw up a little too much. It's hard to tell. But what ever it is - I can tell the signs now when to stop eating. I get this feeling at the back of my throat like I have a bubble or I have to burp and then I know that I have had enough. If I keep eating past that point I will just be sick. So I listen to my body more and just say to myself - okay - my body is satisfied. And I tell my mind that I can always have more some other day - and to just get over it. Then the little fat girl inside of my cries a little and stamps her foot with a sad little grumble and walks away. And the confident, proud thinnier woman who is in control scraps her plate into the garbage and does the dishes!!!:cursing:
  3. Thanks for your comments. It makes everything worth while when people say nice things. The hardest part is believing that I can actually fit into smaller clothes. I hold them up and think - there is NO WAY that I am going to be able to get into that. And then magically those pants fit over my hips and I look in the mirror and say wow - I can't believe it. It's still hard for my head to get around. But very exciting. All of you are going to love it shopping when you get to this point. I PROMISE!!!
  4. So last month I had my 6th fill and i've finally hit my sweet spot. I won't be going in this month because i'm steadily losing every week which is awesome. I am finally in onederland!!! I weighed in this morning at 198 yipee!! This is soooo exciting. I went shopping on the weekend at Pennington's and I am a size 14. I won't be able to shop there anymore because that's the smallest size they have. Can you believe it - I have to shop at regular stores now. AWESOME!!! I am so looking forward to this summer at the beach. My goal is getting closer and closer. I love love love my band. Thank you slimband.
  5. So last month I had my 6th fill and i've finally hit my sweet spot. I won't be going in this month because i'm steadily losing every week which is awesome. I am finally in onederland!!! I weighed in this morning at 198 yipee!! This is soooo exciting. I went shopping on the weekend at Pennington's and I am a size 14. I won't be able to shop there anymore because that's the smallest size they have. Can you believe it - I have to shop at regular stores now. AWESOME!!! I am so looking forward to this summer at the beach. My goal is getting closer and closer. I love love love my band. Thank you slimband.
  6. Bendy H commented on kcweir's blog entry in Blog 71190
    That is awesome - congrats. I'm at 213 and can hardly wait to get to onederland. I've been stuck here for a little while so I have changed my workout so that I can break this plateau. Hopefully, that will work - if not I know that I will get under it when I go for my fill next month. Congrats on your great achievement!!
  7. So I went in for my 5th fill. I got .75cc fill. Felt fine but by that night couldn't even swallow my own spit. I went in the next day and had a .25cc defill. Felt fine and then a few days later the band tightened again had to go back in and have another .25cc defill. Now I am at 8.75cc in a 10cc band and feel great. I think I am at my sweet spot for now. Altogether - I am down 55 pounds as of this morning. What a wonderful feeling. Even though being overfilled was very uncomfortable - to get to the spot where I am at is great. I can hardly wait until summer - going to the beach is going to be a totally different experience than in the past. Before people looked at me like I was a beached whale. This summer I am going to feel awesome and totally enjoy the water with my boys. Thank you Slimband - I Love My Band.:thumbup:
  8. So I went in for my 5th fill. I got .75cc fill. Felt fine but by that night couldn't even swallow my own spit. I went in the next day and had a .25cc defill. Felt fine and then a few days later the band tightened again had to go back in and have another .25cc defill. Now I am at 8.75cc in a 10cc band and feel great. I think I am at my sweet spot for now. Altogether - I am down 55 pounds as of this morning. What a wonderful feeling. Even though being overfilled was very uncomfortable - to get to the spot where I am at is great. I can hardly wait until summer - going to the beach is going to be a totally different experience than in the past. Before people looked at me like I was a beached whale. This summer I am going to feel awesome and totally enjoy the water with my boys. Thank you Slimband - I Love My Band.:biggrin:
  9. I'm going for my third fill on Monday the 21st as well. I have a 10 cc band. My first fill was 4 cc and the second was 2 cc so I wonder how it will be on Monday. I have no restriction right now and have lost weight but i'm hungry. So hopefully this will do the trick or at least have a little restriction. I dont' want to cheat especially so close to the holidays
  10. If you don't mind me asking - how much was your tummy tuck and breast lift with implants?
  11. Bendy H commented on Bendy H's blog entry in Blog 73642
    I had my surgery on Sept 18 2009 - am currently down 33 pounds since then. My gas pain was only about 3 days - after that it was gone. I got my band in Toronto, Ontario. I am glad we have a treadmill because we got a dump of snow last night and it is really icy out. B:)
  12. Wow

    Bendy H posted a blog entry in Blog 73642
    This was a lot easier than I thought it was going to be. I really thought that I would have to fight my food demons to be able to stay on track. I have been pleasantly surprised. I eat 5 to 6 little meals a day - well 3 meals and snacks in between - all realtively small. I have followed the book of instructions that they have given and it really works. I am now down 33 pounds as of this morning. I have had two fills - both successful and no complications. Reading other peoples blogs and the lap band diva group on facebook makes me very greatful. I haven't had any complications or problems. Even my family is eating better - plus since I have been using our home gym all my sons seem to have started as well. Now there is a line up and a time schedule as to who gets to use the gym and when. The last to follow suit was my hubby. My oldest son made a comment about him being Santa this year and I think that was the last straw. He started working out this week too. I am so happy that I made the decision to get the lap band. I have a tonne more energy and just feel great everyday. My wardrobe has always been full of xxl to small and it is a joy to move my way back down the closet. My hubby is already talking about how he can't wait to go to Victoria Secret shopping for me. Well - all I can say is that every dime we spent was well worth my health, happiness and future. Good luck to all in their journeys.:thumbup:
  13. Wow

    Bendy H commented on Bendy H's blog entry in Blog 73642
    This was a lot easier than I thought it was going to be. I really thought that I would have to fight my food demons to be able to stay on track. I have been pleasantly surprised. I eat 5 to 6 little meals a day - well 3 meals and snacks in between - all realtively small. I have followed the book of instructions that they have given and it really works. I am now down 33 pounds as of this morning. I have had two fills - both successful and no complications. Reading other peoples blogs and the lap band diva group on facebook makes me very greatful. I haven't had any complications or problems. Even my family is eating better - plus since I have been using our home gym all my sons seem to have started as well. Now there is a line up and a time schedule as to who gets to use the gym and when. The last to follow suit was my hubby. My oldest son made a comment about him being Santa this year and I think that was the last straw. He started working out this week too. I am so happy that I made the decision to get the lap band. I have a tonne more energy and just feel great everyday. My wardrobe has always been full of xxl to small and it is a joy to move my way back down the closet. My hubby is already talking about how he can't wait to go to Victoria Secret shopping for me. Well - all I can say is that every dime we spent was well worth my health, happiness and future. Good luck to all in their journeys.:cursing:
  14. Bendy H posted a blog entry in Blog 73642
    I'm down 17 pounds. Which is great. I have been walking every day for about an hour. I have no restriction - so i just stop eating when I feel satisfied and not when I'm full. Never thought I would be able to do that. Wow. All my incisions have healed nicely. I had very little shoulder pain from the gas of the surgery. It last for maybe two days and disappeared. I bought three new shirts yesterday. All a size 2x - used to be a 3x. Feels good. Can't wait for the next few weeks to slip by so that I can get a fill. I will probably maintain this weight until then. No one has noticed my weight loss at work - however, my hubby, mom and sister have. Things are turning out to be much easier than I thought - so glad that I had this operation.
  15. Bendy H commented on Bendy H's blog entry in Blog 73642
    I'm down 17 pounds. Which is great. I have been walking every day for about an hour. I have no restriction - so i just stop eating when I feel satisfied and not when I'm full. Never thought I would be able to do that. Wow. All my incisions have healed nicely. I had very little shoulder pain from the gas of the surgery. It last for maybe two days and disappeared. I bought three new shirts yesterday. All a size 2x - used to be a 3x. Feels good. Can't wait for the next few weeks to slip by so that I can get a fill. I will probably maintain this weight until then. No one has noticed my weight loss at work - however, my hubby, mom and sister have. Things are turning out to be much easier than I thought - so glad that I had this operation.
  16. Well - I was banded Sept 18th 2009 - and I feel great. I don't have any pain and healing very well. I eat really small portions every 3 hours and drinking a lot of water and herbal tea inbetween. I do get hungry but as soon as I eat - it goes away. I'm down 17 pounds since the preop - so I guess that's pretty good. Curious about the first fill in a few weeks and how I will feel then as I don't really feel restriction at this point.
  17. September Band List Soco 9/01/09 Amandakrangel 9/1/09 Coloradomom (Gen) 9/1/09 ms_Hart37 9/1/09 mosean6278 09/01/09 katklaws 09/01/09 SmilinShel (Michelle) 09/01/09 Comet321 (Chris) 9/1/09 ivy76 9/02/09 $occer mom 9/3/09 Jmtmb (JoLynne ) 9/4/09 JLDChester(Jamie)9/4/09 Cortney75 (Cortney) 9/4/09 tzn (Karena) 9/8/09 mrsyellis (yohontas)9/08/09 Jules 09/09/09 Soldiersgem(ginna) 9/9/09 pr8453(Pam) 9/9/09 bradybrat 09/09/09 Ready4a2ndchance 9/09/09 travel (Anita) 09/09/09 kittkat2009 09/10/09 Hmarko (helen) 9/11/09 stardustic 9/11/09 BrentinLA 9/14/09 Queen Bee 9/14/09 amwash23 9/14/09 romain123 9/14/09 Nawlinzlady (Dee) 9/15/09 Anni80 (annie) 9/15/09 Lula 9/15/09 smallerj (jes) 9/16/09 Boo Cakes 9/16/09 Hardygostlin (Jody) 9/17/09 Loveslady(Tawonda) 9/17/09 Gatorgirl1024 (Shelley) 9/17/09 MishiB (Michelle) 9/17/09 Bendy H (Brenda) 9/18/09 Sharie3 9/21/09 Italia2020 (Mia) 09/21/09 Ariane (Ariane) 09/21/09 Jenna1979 (Jennifer) 09/22/09 Pookiemp 9/23/2009 leigna 09/24/09 Chickychoo (Jill) 09/28/09 Kinzie 09/28/09 Soexcited 9/30/09 ShrinkingV (Vickie) 9/30/09 __________________
  18. September Band List Soco 9/01/09 Amandakrangel 9/1/09 Coloradomom (Gen) 9/1/09 ms_Hart37 9/1/09 mosean6278 09/01/09 katklaws 09/01/09 SmilinShel (Michelle) 09/01/09 Comet321 (Chris) 9/1/09 ivy76 9/02/09 $occer mom 9/3/09 Jmtmb (JoLynne ) 9/4/09 JLDChester(Jamie)9/4/09 Cortney75 (Cortney) 9/4/09 tzn (Karena) 9/8/09 mrsyellis (yohontas)9/08/09 Jules 09/09/09 Soldiersgem(ginna) 9/9/09 pr8453(Pam) 9/9/09 bradybrat 09/09/09 Ready4a2ndchance 9/09/09 travel (Anita) 09/09/09 kittkat2009 09/10/09 Hmarko (helen) 9/11/09 stardustic 9/11/09 BrentinLA 9/14/09 Queen Bee 9/14/09 amwash23 9/14/09 romain123 9/14/09 Nawlinzlady (Dee) 9/15/09 Anni80 (annie) 9/15/09 Lula 9/15/09 smallerj (jes) 9/16/09 Boo Cakes 9/16/09 Hardygostlin (Jody) 9/17/09 Loveslady(Tawonda) 9/17/09 Gatorgirl1024 (Shelley) 9/17/09 MishiB (Michelle) 9/17/09 Bendy H (Brenda) 9/18/09 Sharie3 9/21/09 Italia2020 (Mia) 09/21/09 Ariane (Ariane) 09/21/09 Jenna1979 (Jennifer) 09/22/09 Pookiemp 9/23/2009 leigna 09/24/09 Chickychoo (Jill) 09/28/09 Kinzie 09/28/09 Soexcited 9/30/09 ShrinkingV (Vickie) 9/30/09 __________________
  19. In 24 hours I will be "Banded Bendy" lol.
  20. Soco 9/01/09 Amandakrangel 9/1/09 Coloradomom (Gen) 9/1/09 ms_Hart37 9/1/09 mosean6278 09/01/09 katklaws 09/01/09 SmilinShel (Michelle) 09/01/09 Comet321 (Chris) 9/1/09 ivy76 9/02/09 Jmtmb (JoLynne ) 9/4/09 JLDChester(Jamie)9/4/09 Cortney75 (Cortney) 9/4/09 tzn (Karena) 9/8/09 mrsyellis (yohontas)9/08/09 amethyst_moonbowJules 09/09/09 Soldiersgem(ginna) 9/9/09 pr8453(Pam) 9/9/09 bradybrat 09/09/09 Ready4a2ndchance 9/09/09 Hmarko (helen) 9/11/09 stardustic 9/11/09 Nawlinzlady (Dee) 9/15/09 Anni80 (annie) 9/15/09 smallerj (jes) 9/16/09 Hardygostlin (Jody) 9/17/09 Loveslady(Tawonda) 9/17/09 Gatorgirl1024 (Shelley) 9/17/09 MishiB (Michelle) 9/17/09 BendyH (Brenda) 9/18/09 Sharie3 9/21/09 Pookiemp 9/23/2009 leigna 09/24/09 Chickychoo (Jill) 09/28/09 Kinzie 09/28/09 Soexcited 9/30/09 waynes6 9/30/09
  21. Hello everyone: 9 more days till surgery!! Started the preop yesterday and down 2.5 pounds. I'm on my way.
  22. Hi "Thatswhatdefinesme": I was really excited to read your post - I'm hoping to be in the same boat two months from now. I weigh 260 and have my surgery next Thursday. I am totally pumped and I love this board to read all the exciting stories. Thanks for telling yours. B:)
  23. Hello Mego: I'm a fatty too lol - my husband used to chase me all over but now that he has a budda belly - sadly the chase has slowed to a crawl. So I decided to have this operation. My surgery is booked for Sept 18th 2009. Can't wait. So excited. I know once I start dropping the weight my hubby will be too and the chase will be on once again. I have to keep life exciting - all our boys are teens or adults now so there is lots of alone time coming soon!! I was 275 when I gave birth to my last son. You are right you don't want to get pregant at that weight - it was really hard. Good luck on your new adventure! B:)
  24. I believe that the word of wisdom is talking about red meat - not so much chicken and fish. I'm just guessing.
  25. Bendy H posted a blog entry in Blog 73642
    Well - 20 more days until my surgery. Once the September long weekend is over I start my 10 day preop diet. :blushing: I can hardly wait till I can get going on my new life. I joined the Aquatic Center near my house and after surgery will be getting a gym pass. These last few weeks have been so long because I knew I was going to be having surgery and have been very anxious to start.

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