Sweetie

Telly, you may have already posted in an earlier thread so forgive me, but who did your surgery in Mexico, and would you recommend this facility? Also, would you mind sharing how much it was? Thanks!

First off, if you, "feel like I make the wrong move it's over", then it's HIS problem, not yours! That wouldn't be the kind of relationship you would want to have, always walking on eggshells! I'm no dating expert but girl, you've got a lot going for you so just be yourself. I was married for 18 years, divorced about 4 years, and just remarried in December. The best book I EVER read concerning men is called "Why Men Love Bitches". I would recommend it to every woman whether she is married or not. I think I'd wait to reply to Tony again, but you need to do what is in your heart.

I think a lot of time the people who are mean to others are masking their own pain. I remember going back to a 20-year reunion and there was this one guy who was always smart-mouthing everyone. He admitted at our 20 year reunion that he wasn't very nice and apologized. He also revealed that his mom was a raging alcoholic and his dad had skipped town and he had a great many responsibilities. I've heard that sometimes it is beneficial to write a letter to that person and tell them how you feel and when you are done rip it up.

My pet peeve is people who go in the express checkouts at the grocery store and they have WAY too many items.

Spldgrl, where did you have your surgery done?

Puddin', you look great and are such an inspiration. Whom did your surgery? I can't remember if it was you or Telly that had the surgery done in Mexico? If so, were you pleased with the facilities?

My deciding moment was realizing not only was I over 200 pounds but was 237! I literally shredded pics I saw of myself. I was tired of being tired all the time.

Cottage cheese........