Okay, I'm to be banded in 1 month. I'm getting a little concerned about everyone saying that with the Lapband, one still has to "work" really hard to lose weight. Okay, I know, this sounds terrible... an easy fix? How dare I even dream! But dream, I did... and now I'm not so sure.
You see, I wouldn't weigh as much as I do now if I had ANY willpower. And yet, I'm being told that I'll need willpower to succeed. Should I waste my money if "I" can't do it anymore?
I've lost weight three times by eating super small portions, and eating only when I felt physical hunger. It's a great way to lose, but after about a year, "I" can't keep it up anymore. Every meal is a battle, and the one time I give in, it's downhill from there.
Now I weigh more than ever! And to think, 4 years ago I was a size 8!
So, here's my question: please define "work"...
If eating super small portions worked before, and now my stomach will be so small that I can't overeat, how can the Lapband NOT work? What kind of "work" is required of me to succeed? Please, do help... I'm willing to do my part, I'm just hoping for some help. Thanks.
Lizzie :help: