Monica Justice

I have been considering WLS for several years.  I had to have an emergency hysterectomy in 2009 and since then I have put on an alarming amount of weight, 150-175 lbs.  I have high blood pressure and I am pre-diabetic. Every joint I have aches.  I have tried multiple diets, went to the gym and even had a trainer for a while.  I couldn't seem to lose more than 10 lbs.  I can't even look at myself in the mirror due to the weight gain.  I'm tired of reading in my doctor's notes that I am "obese".  Such an ugly word!  
I would have had the surgery a few years ago but it was not covered on my health plan at my employer.  I have since moved and changed employers and the surgery is now covered.  I understand this is not a quick fix and it's simply a tool.  I am not someone that seeks help, I am very independent and self-reliant.  However, in this instance I am going to welcome with open arms any advice or suggestions on how to get the most out of my new lifestyle.