Ten years ago I lost 75 lbs. I look sooo differant. People made wonderful comments about how great I looked. But I always remember the night of my husbands work Christmas party when my husband looked at me and said I was "smoking hot"!* We have been married 26 years and I now weigh 212 and I want to be hot again. If you have a good, solid marrige to start I can't see where losing weight should change it. It may even make it better.