DezignDiva

So, my husband just said “ I support you but I don’t think you need this surgery”……what do I do with that? Am I wrong to see this as non support? I looked at him with tears in my eyes and told him “ I NEED this” and he is somehow now the victim of an assault on his psyche bc I won’t let him have an opinion? What? I expressed to him that I appreciated his support for whatever size I am was great and that I really needed his support without the “but” and he was offended. Wtf do I do with this? I am just baffled at how this has exploded……any advice?

I have a question for those that have had gastric sleeve surgery. . . I work from home - on a laptop - realistically, how many days do I need to ask off? I feel like I can easily sit at my desk or work from my bed if needed, why do I need to waste PTO days when all I'm doing is sitting anyway. Am I crazy? Am I just naive? Were you able to move around and sit at a desk a few days after surgery? Thank you in advance for your response.