kzibutis

So glad to find this posting. My weight loss is tearing up my marriage. I have been trying to get my husband of 12 years to talk to me about this for the last 4 months. He has started to be negative towards me a lot of the time. He is spying on me and accusing me of lots of things. It is very painful and I can feel myself putting up a wall to protect myself. I feel wonderful and am not going back. We have 3 wonderful children that I do not want to hurt, but how long can I live like this? I do nothing right. I have asked him to go to counseling and so far he won't. Confused and hurting.

Has anyone had any problem with their marriage since losing weight? My husband likes the new me, but is so overly jealous and protective. He has even accused me of things that aren't happening. It has been very painful and is hurting our marriage. Any words of wisdom?

I am not a colored woman, but I am definately losing hair. I have been watching my protein so closely. I mean I am sure I don't always get enough, but I try. I worry about it and feel like it is so noticeable, but no one else does. My doctor said it usually fixes itself in a few months. Hope you are all doing better with it than I am.

I had my band done oct. 2007 by dr. hammer. Couldn't be more thrilled with him or the whole process. Down 70 so far and feeling great. Would love to talk to anyone in the Springfield area, or who used dr. hammer.:cursing: