Mommy.ArmyWife

Well, I think I'll try it for PREVENTING my hair to come out... I am getting lots of protein, but I'd really rather keep my thick, healthy hair!

Wow! I had to stay over night, but I was at Plano Presbeterian, and let me tell you, that place is the HILTON of HOSPITALS! Free Movies on Demand, Room Service (not that I could EAT anything, though) and internet on the TV! Plus the hospital itself was amazing! I'm glad all is well, and I hope your recovery is swift!

Yes, I had to MAKE SURE I didn't loose any weight before they approved me. I had a BMI of 39.5 which tricare went ahead and approved because it was so close to 40, and I have no comorbities. I have heard of several people who actually had to regain weight before approval. Don't worry, after approval, you can loose as much as you want, and they will still do surgery.

I am on BC, Nuva Ring actually, and I was told to USE it because I can't get pregnant for a year after surgery... I've never heard NOT using BC...

Wow! That's a little unsettling! How does a port flip? What causes it?

Really? My doctor gave a 6 week 20 lbs restriction. The Army gave him a month as well, and I'm SOOOO gonna put his big muscled arms to work in my classroom!:biggrin2:

I think this is SO poetic justice! LOL. My husband is having to do everything for our daughter, who is 2, while I heal! Dirty Diapers, Nap Times, Food, Sippy Cups, Playing, Whining, Fussing! All of it! I get to sit in my recliner, and watch TV, sipping my liquids, and blowing kisses at my baby girl. I love my husband, and he's a wonderful provider! But, now he knows what I go through all day! Though he would NEVER admit it, I think he's finally seeing why I'm tired at the end of the day! Not to mention, I can't lift ANYTHING, so in a couple of weeks, when it's time to start setting up my classroom (I am a teacher), he'll have to do all the furniture moving and heavy lifting! I think I timed this surgery JUST right!:thumbup:

That's a great idea! Is it a relatively small pill? Or does it have to be crushed?? Thanks!:biggrin2:

I don't think any of us are attempting to validate her actions, but we also don't want to be RUDE and belittle her about it either. We're here for support, and that kind of comment is not supportive. However intended, I don't think anyone would have taken that as support. What WE were saying is that she's ok, and probably has no problems, but to keep to the diet. We all tried to give her better options, and HELPFUL comments so that she can move past her BAD behavior, and attempt to move forward to BETTER behavior! That's what she needed, not someone to belittle her. What's done is done, and she can't change her past actions, however, we can all choose our future behaviors, and we hope that because of our helpful and supportive comments, that she, and others who have made bad choices, will move on to better, and more healthful choices of eating.

Lol! Good for you! I'm on day 4, and I hope I have that restraint!

Exactly... it's just because the swelling went down. You'll have to wait for your first fill to get that great restriction again! So many people here have such a problem from the time the swelling goes down, to their first fill! I'm sure hunger returns with a vengence! Don't worry, though, there's nothing wrong at all!

That would be the END of a friendship with me! I guess I'm lucky, my family and friends have been so supportive! I've gone up and down with my weight over the last few years, and I don't think I would get high and mighty about loosing! And, there's no way I'd tell someone what they should and shouldn't do to loose weight! As long as it's healthy, it's fine! Whatever works, you know? I have a friend that has lap band, she has done LOTS that she SHOULD NOT do, but she's lost a lot of weight! She told me everything that she's done thats WRONG, and said, if you want to do it right, don't do these things. She has been super supportive! Why would ANYONE that has the band NOT be supportive??

I know I told you this, Joiful, on another thread, but I'd like to share with all the new bandsters here... Slimfast is probably not the best option. It's ok, but if you want lower sugar and higher protein, go to Vitamin shoppe or GNC. They have protein shots. They come in what looks like test tubes, taste like Kool-Aid, and have over 40 grams of protein! Of course, you're body can't absorb 40 grams all at once, so split it up, half in the morning, half in the afternoon, then work in a whey Protein shake (I got a double chocolate Fudge that has 23 grams in a 6 ounce shake), and you've got all your protein! :confused: We can't eat much, or drink much. My doctor said 2 oz an hour. I don't know about y'all, but I would rather not be sipping on the same protein shake for 3-4 hours, lol!

You're just fine. We're not perfect, no one is! Just remember that when people are mean, and hateful! Just keep going, and it will get easier! I wish I FELT like eating a Big Mac! The gas pains are horrid this morning! Day 4, and I was SO looking forward to cream of wheat, lol. Now I don't want anything!

Well, I'm on chewable vitamins, and they don't taste like candy, lol. That's all I'll say! I do enjoy my double chocolate fudge 100% whey protein shakes! Althoiugh, I can only drink a little at a time!

Get all the protein you can get! Protein will keep your hair loss in check!

My doctor said to stay away from SlimFast because it has so much sugar. Have you looked at GNC? I got a double fudge chocalate shake protein mix that has 23 grams of protein in a 6 oz shake. It's actually really good, and I can blend it with milk and ice, and it's great, and really filling! They also have Protein "shots". They look like little test tubes, and they have 42 grams of protein in 1 shot. Tastes like kool-aid, and I take a half in the morning, then half later, then drink a shake and I get more than 60 grams of protein!

I'm on clear liquids for 3 days, and full liquids for 5 weeks. The nurse did say my doctor will probably allow mushies after 2 weeks of full liquids... maybe 3 weeks. Every doctor is different, and every patient is different, as well. Call your doctor, and see what he recomends. I bet he'll have ideas. Also, are you getting lots of protien? That will definately help with hunger!

Well, let us know how you're doing! I know that's worrysome! But, there are all sorts of doctors who do things their own way. Mine is very laid back, but he did stress what was MOST important to follow.

Well, I ate maybe 2-3 ounces of jello too quickly tonight. I felt like I ate enough for an ARMY! I'm supposed to start blended soups and cream of wheat and such tomorrow, and I'm not sure I can!!

I'm allowed diet soda when the full liquids for 5 weeks is over...

No, you're ok. Even my doctor said he knows that sometimes you just want FOOD. He did tell me if I stray from the diet, to keep it healthy. Ramen Noodles have little fat, but lots of sodium so I'd choose something else. I actually ate healthy choice often, and my liver was perfect for surgery. The doctor said the surgery was really fast, and went really well! You'll be ok!

I don't feel much restriction on the liquids, do you? I mean, I don't feel hungry, but I don't feel really full either. So many people say they don't have an appetite, but I kinda feel as though I do. Not that I could eat a whole meal or anything...

I am actually taking the liquids great! I feel slight restriction, but I can definately tell the swelling is going down. I have a feeling I'll be one of those who will need quite a fill at the 6 week point!

I got banded a couple days ago, and I didn't have a fill. My doc said that I can't have a fill until 6 weeks post op... I've never heard of them filling during surgery.