Hey girl, I know the feeling!!! I am waiting for my surgery date, and already people are freaking out!!! Even, my girlfriend who has a band. What does she think I am her competiton??? Well let the games begin, is how I see it. My sister is also waitng for her band so I guess that means were gonna tag team her in a year from now. Whatever, their is nothing you can do about other peoples' insucureities. Just keep on keeping on. And put yourself first. They will follow.