I know exactly what you mean. I had nearly 15 years with no issues. I miss that girl too. I am nervous as can be. This process has happened so quickly- about 5 weeks! And I haven’t had time to mentally prepare. Surgery is Monday!! I’ve got to get my head in the game.
I am scheduled for a distal on Monday. I had a proximal 15 years ago and it was great! I recently put on all my weight back, and I am so disappointed. I am very nervous about those changes you mentioned. I already have some of those issues, so I am wondering how it can get much worse!!