I can absolutely relate to this family issue. It's so difficult when your biggest cheerleader, and one of your main supports suddenly has a different mind set for your procedure. You suddenly start to question if this is the right thing so close to the end; even though previously you have already gone through the pro's and con's. Bottom line is you know what's best for you, and you need to follow your own path despite anyone else's opinions. Unfortunately you may need to do like I did and just distance yourself from then for awhile. Right now it's OK for AshMarie to be totally selfish for once and do what you need to do to live a long healthy, happy life, for you and only you!
Just a little on my issue, my sister who has had both the lap band, and then RNY has been diagnosed with cancer and is now having a very hard time in life. Prior to her recent struggle she was 100% gung-ho for my procedure and highly supportive, but now she is having a hard time in her life and I feel she is putting this negativity towards me. It's hard, but I've had to call her way less often just for my own overall well being. I keep telling myself I'll be of a much better help to her later on if I'm actually healthy myself.