Now, now...
Everyone is going through something different after surgery here and it's all new to us. So what's a big deal to someone might not be a big deal to you. I know when I started this, I really expected the weight to just fall off quickly. Not what I wanted but what I expected. So when the weight slowly started coming off and I saw people with the same amount of time since their surgery losing more weight, I questioned myself and thought maybe I was doing something wrong.
I can totally get where MarthaT is coming from. We expect one thing and get another. If I've learned anything it's that we're all different and my journey is going to be just that, my journey.