Bombshellkitten

Will the dietitian clear and approve to move forward if I have gained weight? details below... pardon the lack of punctuation, I am on my phone I have my final visit with the dietitian this week. I was doing so well until the mental health professionals threw a wretch and sent me way off track (long story short, I was a victim of childhood abuse and sexual abuse while in college... it pretty much was a how can someone go threw this and hold their life together and said I couldn’t do the surgery because I “needed” there help because well how Can I live when something like that happened) I stood up for myself and yes, the things I have been threw was terrible but I am a stronger being because of it. After the assault, I gained a lot of weight, by a lot I mean like 70lbs in a few short months... then continually climbed due to the depression that had set in. Wanting to have the surgery in the first place is to take back that part of my life. In doing so, I went off track and back to depression. My view was that since I was abused, that is the only thing I will ever be so why bother mentality... anyone had a similar situation?

What is the best way to meal plan. I don't even know where to start Help

Look Amazing!!! You go girl

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That will be nice. I've always hated buying clothes since nothing fitted ever

I called the surgeons office and let them know I'm going with rny over sleeve. I have one more visit with the dietitian and then everything will be sent to insurance. SOOoooo NERVOUS!!!

Thank you... the surgeon suggested the sleeve, but I am leaning more towards rny. I am worried about long term though. I am 27, may still want children in the future and nervous if it will make it so I can't or hurt future babies. Plus, I worry a lot so I am nervous for such a big decision :/

Do you regret the surgery?

I am Catherine. I am new to this bored, and scared and nervous and happy, and pretty much any emotion you can have all at the same time I have recently started my journey of weight loss surgery. Right now, I am meeting with the dietitian and the mental health professionals and the like. Next month, I will be able to schedule my next appointment with the surgeon. I am currently 451 lbs, and down four pounds since my initial visit. Anyone else starting their journey? Anyone been there and have success. Anyone been there and failed?