lau1875

I am almost 60 days post op. I am having a so so time. this is a lot harder than I thought it would be. The biggest problem I'm having is the lack of support for my family and friends. my sister who I thought was my biggest supporter turns out to be trying to sabotage me. every time I'm with her she always is offering me food for offering to go out to eat or trying to give me alcohol. I heard her talking to another family member about how upset she is that I'm losing so much weight and she's trying to lose weight The right way. she said she would be damn if she will have me become skinnier than her so she's trying to make me fail. this is very hurtful why would somebody do this? I have a long road to go and I'm just afraid that I'm not gonna be able to go through it alone. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Hi everyone, hope y'al are doing well. I am 14 days post opp, and I found out 2day I am very dehydrated. I'm very dizzy, sluggis, achy, n everything. But my real problem is I have no support. My sister thinks because I am out of work, I am her personal slave. Since Ive been out of the hospital Ive gone grocery shopping for ger twice, and had to prepare dinner for her kids beacause she had the "flu". I tell people I cant do much and they tell me Im over reacting I didnt have major surgery, it was a minor procedure because it was laparoscopic, and I need to stop being lazy and get up and move. Even when I try eating something, my mother and sister make comments to me about why am I think about is food and eating. I just started on mushy food and I only had a half a meatball. Then abiut 5 hrs later I had a piece of cheese. They said I should never had went for the surgery because I feel hungry at times. The said I focus to much on food and I'm gonna be fat for the rest of my life. I dont understand Did I eat to much? Then my boyfriend of 11 yrs just broke up with me for reasons I don't even know. i'm really counting on him for his support. he won't even talk to me. I just feel so alone and I feel like I'm not going to succeed. I'm only down 8lbs since my surgery date. Am i failing already this soon? Did I make a mistake foing thru with the surgery? Thanks for listening. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

My surgery is Wednesday Sept 21st. I am scared out of my mind. I am having panic attacks. Any advice? Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App