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You need some nausea meds. I understand the nausea; I still get it sometimes. It will get better, but only if you manage to stay hydrated and get some nourishment. Your body has been through a lot. Be patient with yourself, but don't be afraid to let your doctor know that you are struggling. Good luck, and feel better soon!

When I started out in February, I was told by my insurance company that I had to wait 6 months. I had a lot of appointments to do, so I was really busy for the first 3 months. Then, at my 3rd appointment with the doctor at the weight management center, I was informed that since I had everything done that I was being referred to the surgeon early. I had NO hope that I would get my surgery before August. My first appointment with the surgeon had to be rescheduled because he had been called into emergency surgery. I was crushed, but figured I would have to wait til August anyway. But, I saw him about 10 days later and my insurance approved me after 3 days! I got scheduled and started my pre-op liquid diet a few days later. Longest 2 weeks of the entire process...but I made it and was sleeved 5/23! You ladies will make it too!!! Hang in there...

I am a 46 year old female living in NC, and really need someone who has been through this process to help me through mine. I am a slow loser. HW 235 SW 219 CW 203. I have identified a few areas that needed some change--I was taking in too much sugar for about 2-3 weeks (hidden in my greek yogurt) and I felt pretty stupid for missing that. I desperately need to break out of this stall I have been dealing with for 3 weeks. I can't seem to get under 200 to save my soul...even after reducing the sugar--I read every label carefully these days!! I never thought it would be harder to lose after surgery. I really expected my weight loss to just be automatic as long as I followed my plan. Nothing could be further from the truth! I am trying to get more exercise, but I have fibromyalgia, so I have to be very careful or I can land myself in bed for three days. I think my body is just holding on for dear life; afraid I will starve so it won't let go of too much weight yet. Anyway, if we have anything in common, or if you think you might be able to help me, please get in touch. Thank you!

@@LipstickLady Thank you so much for putting things into perspective. I know that I lose my patience all too often when something or someone really gets on my last nerve...but your words are so profound and so very wise. Very well said.

Nobody is obligated to weigh in on every topic or coddle anyone. If someone wants to post something ridiculous, let them, and learn to ignore it. Take what you want and leave the rest.

Too bad a work-around is needed to prevent adults behaving badly.

Sounds like you've got it covered! Just hang in there; you are doing great...wish I could speed it up for you!

Not sure how effective your surgery would be if you could. Why do you want to consume more?

I felt that way, too. What you can do is work on making some changes that you will need to make for surgery. If you drink soda--even diet--quit now. Get used to drinking water a LOT. Increase your protein intake. You can research procedures and get an idea of which surgery you think is better for you. Start gathering bariatric recipes, if you like to cook. It's good that you are so focused on the surgery, because it's a huge life change. And you have to change forever, so build your good habits now. It's hard to wait, but it will go by faster than you think. Best wishes to you as you begin your journey!

Thanks for giving me that insight. Best wishes to you all!

You should be able to post about your experiences without starting a sh*t storm. Nobody ever has an obligation to give advice on every single topic, especially if it's something that clearly triggers negativity for you. Agree to disagree, and if you must dispense advice, keep it civil. I have noticed many people who manage to remain objective and kind.

I can't resist. Just because you CAN do something, doesn't make it a good idea. BUT I already committed so here goes: I honestly don't give a rat's a** if somebody wants to drink, smoke, vape, have unprotected sex or whatever other destructive behavior they can think up. Everybody here should be old enough and smart enough to make a very basic decision about what to post about, however stupid any of you think it is. Why can't people quit being so freakin' nasty to each other and just keep scrolling or clicking right on over to another thread that might offend you a little less? Who appointed any of us as the all-mighty highest authority on ANY of this stuff? If you don't have MD after your name, your opinions are ANECDOTAL. Nothing more than that! Don't give yourself a concussion when you finally fall off of that high horse you rode in on. This is ridiculous. You have your opinion, I have mine. Go ahead and shower me with hatred, too. You'll only prove my point. Nobody asked you to save the world.

Leave it alone and let it fall off on its own. Don't scrub it or pick at it. This was the instruction that I got from my surgeon. I left mine on for about 3 weeks and my incisions looked great when it finally peeled off in the shower. It's annoying but much better than stitches or staples.

Dear Lord! If you ate nothing but 600 calories a day for any length of time, your body would learn how to maintain its functions on 600 calories a day. You can't sustain that kind of restriction for very long without getting sick, so as soon as you go back above 600 calories a day, guess what happens. You GAIN weight. Be careful and take care!

I'm going to be very unpopular after this post, but that's fine...Could someone please shed some light on why it's such a secret if you had WLS or not? I don't care who knows, because at least they know I am taking action to correct a major health issue. How will we ever reduce the stigma if we make it such a dirty secret? Who cares if they judge you or don't "understand"? I understand keeping certain things to yourself, but for the life of me I can't imagine worrying about what other people think of my decision to have weight loss surgery. If they don't like it, that is their problem, not mine.

Several people have weighed in to give you the information you asked about. Having said that, it is ultimately between you and your surgeon as to what you need to do about smoking OR vaping.

I was vaping 6 mg in February when I started in my program. I immediately switched to 0 nicotine because my surgeon requires a nicotine test if you smoke, and will not do surgery on anyone with nicotine in their system whether it be from smoking OR vaping. I quit vaping completely by the time I had surgery, but I have since picked it back up and I still use 0 nicotine. I just really enjoy it. I have vaped for 4 years, and never had another case of bronchitis or barely even a cold since I switched to vaping from cigs. Is it harmless? I don't know. All I know is my personal experience which has been completely positive. I had to have a vice--no cigs, no alcohol, no junk food...so I vape, but only when I want to, since I am no longer addicted to nicotine. I just like it!

I would just have a candid conversation about your surgery and explain only as much as you feel comfortable explaining. If it's a serious or potentially serious relationship, I would think he/she would be very interested in your surgery and your reasons for having it. Anybody worth staying with will be glad to hear more about it. My husband was very supportive and helps me so much with exercise and my food, so it's good to have a support person in your life. Best wishes to you all!

Thank you ladies!!

We have similar stats, except I was sleeved 5/23. I have only lost 16 pounds! Just do what you know you're supposed to do and hang in there. I think it's harder to lose when we stress too much about it. As long as we don't give up, we will make it!

Thank you all so much. I feel better having some ideas of what could be going on. I will make some more phone calls tomorrow and see what I can figure out.

@@WLSResources/ClothingExch Thanks so much for the info. I will contact my primary care doc and see if he will check it for me.

Oh boy...I hope it doesn't last long! It's pretty uncomfortable. Maybe it will settle down once I get some weight off.

Has anyone else had episodes of severe sweating not related to a meal? It happened to me about three days ago, and at that time I attributed the symptoms to having a hard time having a bowel movement. Then it happened again today when I was walking in the mall, at a reasonable pace, not what I would consider over-exertion. My hair gets soaked, and my entire body gets very sweaty. It's very uncomfortable, because it takes a long time to cool down and get it to stop. I have a call into my doctor's office, but unfortunately it was a little late to get a call back today. I have had hot flashes before, and this is different. I thought it might be low blood sugar, but it feels different from that also. I don't believe it's a fever either. Anybody else have these "episodes"?

Congratulations!! It is such a relief to get that approval. You are feeling all of the normal things, so try to embrace it and know what a blessing you will receive. I have had frustrations along my journey, but I would not trade this experience for anything in this world. Best wishes to you!